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The Extraordinary Woman Letter
A monthly publication for the woman who is done being small, done waiting for permission, and ready to live the life God actually designed for her.
"You were not an afterthought. You were not a lesser draft. You were not created to be smaller, quieter, or more manageable. You were made in the image of God. Own it."
You've sat in the Bible study. You've read the devotionals. You've been told to be more gentle, more quiet, more patient, more submitted.
And somewhere in the middle of all that — you lost yourself.
Not dramatically. Not all at once. Just slowly, quietly, in a thousand small moments where you made yourself smaller so someone else could feel bigger.
Here's what nobody told you: That was never God's design for you.
The woman God created in Genesis 1 was not an afterthought. She was not a helper in the errand-running sense. She was not designed to be decorative, manageable, or silent.
She was made in the image of God. The same God who spoke galaxies into existence. The same God who breathed life into dust. The same God who rose from the dead.
That image is in YOU.
And this letter exists to help you find it, own it, and live it — out loud, unapologetically, every single day.
What is the Extraordinary Woman Letter?
Every month, Dr. Kim West delivers a beautifully designed, theologically rich, deeply personal letter straight to your door or inbox, written specifically for the woman who is waking up to who she really is.
This isn't a devotional. It isn't a self-help newsletter. It isn't another list of "5 Ways to Be a Better You."
It is a monthly confrontation with the truth about who God made you to be.
Each issue combines:
Theology that actually sets you free — not rules, not religion, but the raw, unfiltered Word of God applied to your real life
Stories you will recognize yourself in — real women, real moments, real transformation
Humor that makes you laugh before it makes you think — because truth lands better when you're not braced for it
Interactive elements — you don't just read these letters. You process them. Space to write, reflect, and respond to what God is saying specifically to you
Content you cannot find anywhere else — drawn from 30+ years of pastoral counseling, theological study, and sitting across from women who were told they were too much
What I Offer You
Less of the life that doesn't fit you and the freedom to step into faith-filled, empowered, meaningful and deeply satisfying LIFE - without apology.
A monthly letter with life-changing content found nowhere else and practical steps to apply them! These letters will deepen your faith and equip you for a powerful life in Christ.
Free Don't Ask for Permission, Don't
Apologize book just for saying "Maybe" to The Extraordinary Woman Letter. This is my additional gift to you.
I will personally send you a signed copy
When we begin to awake we are no longer who we were and there is excitement about being freed to find out exactly who that will be.
That's what the Extraordinary Woman Letters do. They are not a program to keep up with. They are a monthly practice — one letter at a time — for women who are learning how to live in a God honoring way in a world that would prefer they stay silent.
You can stay for a month.
You can leave when you want.
You are trusted.
What these letters are —
and what they are not
This is not a newsletter.
This is not content.
This is not motivation-of-the-week.
This is mentoring to a strong, confident woman of God.
Each month, you’ll receive one long-form digital letter.
Written to steady you.
Clarify you.
Strengthen you.
So you can live awake
in a world that still benefits from your silence.
"Some of us have been so well-trained to be small that big feels selfish. It isn't. It"
Who Writes This Letter?
Dr. Kim West is a pastoral counselor, theologian, and the author of over 50 books including The Deception of Adam. She has spent 30+ years sitting across from women who were told they were too much, not enough, or simply in the wrong place.
She is not interested in making you comfortable.
She is interested in making you free.
Every letter is drawn from Scripture, from the counseling room, from 30 years of watching women wake up to who they actually are — and from her own journey of refusing to stay small in a world that kept building smaller rooms.
She writes what most women are thinking but haven't been given permission to say.
"The enemy's first move wasn't temptation. It was a question about her identity. He's been running the same play every since."
Who This Is For and Why This Matters
This is for women who:
Love God deeply and refuse shallow faith
Are done disappearing, diluting, or self-editing
Sense they were meant for more than compliance
Feel the grief and anger that comes after awakening — and want to integrate it, not be consumed by it
Are learning how to live awake without walking away from God
If you are looking for:
Therapy
Coaching
Accountability groups
Motivation
“Five steps to your best life”
This is not for you.
If you are looking for truth, alignment, and steadiness, it probably is.
Without directed transformation:
Women burn out
Women harden
Women fracture their faith or themselves
The Extraordinary Woman Letters exist to help you:
Stay sovereign without becoming isolated
Stay faithful without becoming small
Stay awake without becoming brittle
This is how women last.
"You are not a character in your story. You are the author."
This is An invitation to live awake, anchored, and internally clear.
What You’ll Receive Each Month
Truth for empowered living:
One substantial, interactive digital letter (PDF email access)
A monthly focused theme that reorients your life one area at a time
Language for what you’re living but haven’t fully articulated
A steady voice that helps you stay grounded, sovereign, and awake in Christ
A growing internal clarity that changes how you move through the world
No meetings.
No assignments.
No pressure to perform.
Just mentoring your transformation.
June's Extraordinary Woman LETTER
Image of God - Embrace and Live Your Original Identity
The July issue is coming.
Exit the Debate, Enter Your life - No time for ideology when the Kingdom is at hand.
Subscribe in June and get that issue immediately so you are ready when July drops. Because some of us have spent enough years asking for permission to be who God already called us to be.
Your Investment
You're not saying "yes" to a subscription.
You're choosing a purposeful way forward.
Get The Extraordinary Woman
This is intentionally accessible. No upsells. No funnels. No pressure.
You don’t need another program.
You don’t need to be fixed.
You don’t need permission to live who you are.
You simply need clarity on how to live awake as a Christian woman.
If that’s true for you — the letters are waiting.
Choose your experience
Digital Only Plan — You’ll receive instant access to The Extraordinary Woman (digital version). (No printed letter or live Zoom sessions.)
Print Only Plan — You’ll receive your printed Extraordinary Woman Letter mailed to your home each month, plus access to up to 9 hours of live mentoring, counseling, and coaching with me monthly ($1575 value).
Digital + Print Plan — You’ll enjoy the best of both worlds: instant digital access, your monthly printed letter mailed to you, and up to 9 hours of live group mentoring and coaching each month ($1575 value).
PLUS Free Don't Ask Permission, Don't Apologize book (Applicable to all plans)
I will personally send you a signed copy
Your monthly subscription will begin immediately based.
You can cancel anytime.
Get ready for the intellectual and spiritual ride of your life!
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Digital Letter Only
$28/month renewal
Digital Letter sent to your email on the 1st of each month
Interactive PDF format
Go deep, be challenged to open your mind to new ways to see what God is doing in your life
Guided and interactive content with actionable steps you can implement immediately
Draw closer to the Lord and to a life that looks like Christ
Print + 9 hours of Live Access
$48/month renewal
Print Letter sent to your address (no digital)
Meet 3x per month - up to 3 hours each meeting via Zoom ($1350 value)
Be part of a community of growth-minded, faith-filled women who are on this same beautiful, challenging, and transformational path.
Digital + Print + 9 Hours of Live Access
$55/month renewal
Digital Newsletter sent on 1st
Print Newsletter sent to your address
Meet 3x per month - up to 3 hours each meeting via Zoom ($1350 value)
Be part of a community of growth-minded, faith-filled women who are on this same beautiful, challenging, and transformational path
Your card will be charged the monthly subscription amount today based on the plan you choose. Your membership to The Extraordinary Woman will automatically renew each month unless canceled. You can cancel anytime by emailing [email protected].
That’s it.
No upsells.
No hidden funnels.
No pressure.
You can cancel at any time — though most women don’t.
Because once you have a steady, clarifying voice walking with you…
it’s hard to go back to noise.
"I'm Blown Away!"
For the price of a latte each week, my life is radically transformed every month!
One last thing:
If you’ve ever thought:
“I need to know how to live as a set free woman in a 'be silent' world.”
That’s what these letters are for.
How is the digital letter delivered?
You will receive an email with your full-color, interactive PDF on the first of the month. You can read it on any device or print it yourself.
When does the print letter arrive?
Print letters are mailed in the first week of each month. Delivery times vary by location.
Can I access back issues?
Great question. I'm creating a way to purchase digital copies of back issues. In the meantime, the full first year of letters is published on Amazon. You can find it by clicking this link. The second year publication will be in November 2026.
What if I'm not sure it is for me?
You can read sample excerpts by clicking on the link at the top of the page. If any of those paragraphs made you feel something, then subscribe. That feeling is the point. You can cancel at any time.
Is this a Christian resource?
Yes. Every letter is grounded in Scripture and written from a Christ-centered perspective. I have a Master of Divinity from Phoenix Seminary and a Phd in Clinical Pastoral Counseling. I've been helping to bring freedom and healing in Christ for over 25 years. It doesn't get much more grounded than that.
How is this different than a devotional?
This is definitely not a traditional devotional although you will move closer to Christ through it. If you want to be challenged, stretched, and set free then this is for you. If you want to be comfortable there are plenty of resources available to you elsewhere.
